JoleneSnow -Girl who went through hell to finally meet heaven.
Monday, February 22, 2010

As my title suggests, I would like to blog about growth :)

I am waiting for a small young boy to grow up,to be matured,to behave like an adult and have an intelligent mindset.

I hope he grows quickly,into a man who can give me a sense if security,a big brother who can lead his siblings to learn what is right and wrong,to be a matured son,sharing the burden of every family matter,doing what expresses filial piety to them.I hope he grows into a matured man,a boyfriend who knows hot to take the initiative,and not someone whom needs me to nag and teach.

Learn how to express yourself.
Take the initiative to be the man of the relationship.

I am older than you by only a year,does it separates us tt badly?
I don't think so.

I believe in you,I love you and I know you will mature gradually.
The point is do you believe in yourself?

Stop living in your "I am a prince" world and wake up to this realistic world.

I believe that I am much more mature than you due to the fact that I have been through much much more than you do. You've led a blessed life the past 19years. Now,it is time to step into adulthood and grow up.

Be wise,be smart and be my man :)

I cannot rely on a boy now,I need a man.
& a relationship will not blossom to its pinnacle when I feel like the man of the relationship.

1year & 5months on this road w you.
We've seen the rainbow and we've walked through the floods.
Some people curse us,others bless us.
But we just have to look into each other's eyes and we'll know what's gng on between us.

Fingers crossed. Promise made.
Let's continue walking and GROWING up together on this road of ours :)

And on a lighter note,I tried to pose like a model in my Lunar New Year's dress.
And yes,as the photos suggests, I did a bad job :X I couldn't stop sniffling a giggle :D :D :D

Of cos I gave up in the end :/ So much for thoughts of being a model. I have no pretty face and no height. I must be kidding me.


Pink & Purple.
Thursday, February 18, 2010


I have not been updating again.
I thought weeks back,I have proposed the idea of updating every single day.
Oh man,the power of procrastination ~

Anyways, it is 2010 February already!!!

That is like so fast.

In the midst of the Lunar New Year right now.we're all merrily gambling,getting red packets and proclaiming "Gong Xi Fa Cai":D

Life has been fine for me, been making tough but matured decisions, like moving away from unworthy people who curses me to be struck by lightning (LOL)
So funny! People at which age level says that? 13?14? *snickers*

I am learning many new things at work,handling a few projects at a time.
One for Nestle.
Another for Ice Mountain.
It's gonna be tough, but I believe I will make it through.

I am 20 this year, and I have pretty much grown up.
I can see through the different people I meet everyday and I am cautious when it comes to making adult decisions.

Have been constantly getting into writing my book.
Cannot wait for it to be finished!

Anyway, I will try my best to update as much as I can,when I have the time,as the Internet at work is being restricted :((
We can only go onto our company's website and Yellow Pages. How sucky!

Having a company CNY dinner tmr. Gonna "LO HEI":D
Am gonna put on a pretty dress & enjoy :)

Anyway,I figured I must b log abt this cos I find it super interesting :)


It totally looked so pretty pls! It'a interior was like a pub and it was a totally relaxing scenery. Hahas.

Bus 107! The Nokia bus, I wish more buses would be created this way.
Tt'd be so cool :D

I was so busy in the bus taking photos !

Tomorrow is me & Baby's 1 year & 5 months anniversary !!!

James Liu,chun ruk koon !! ฉันรักคุณ :)

Sunday, February 07, 2010

Updating of this blog has been greatly delayed.

I am so tired.
Workload is piling up like nobody's business.
Stress at work is building up.
& CNY is approaching.

Been so busy shopping this 2 days that I just feel like fainting right now :X

Celebrated Gers birthday last night.
Had an awesome time.
Went shopping w Buddy Ferlyn @ Far East Plaza & Bugis.
Had a great time too :D

Photos will all rot in my camera & phone till my energy is restored soon.

Here's something cute I'll like to share w everyone ^^


1. Touch her waist.
2. Actually talk to her.
3. Share secrets with her.
4. Give her 1 of your sweatshirts
5. Kiss her slowly.

Are you remembering this?

6. Hug her.
7. Hold her.
8. Laugh with her.
9. Invite her everywhere.
10. Hangout with her and your friends together.


11. Smile with her.
12. Take pictures with her.
13. Pull her onto your lap.
14. When she says she loves you more, deny it. Fight back.
15. When her friends say i love her more than you, deny it. fight back and hug her tight so she can't get to her friends. it makes her feel loved.

Are you thinking of someone?

16. Always hug her and say hi whenever you see her.
17. Kiss her unexpectedly.
18. Hug her from behind around the waist.
19. Tell her she's beautiful.
20. Tell her the way you feel about her.

One last thing you need to do to show her you actually do mean it.

21. Open doors for her, walk her to her car (if any)- it makes her feel protected, plus it never hurts to act like a gentleman.
22. Tell her she's your everything - ONLY if you mean it.
23. If it seems like there is something wrong, ask her- if she denies something being wrong, it means SHE DOESN'T WANT TO TALK ABOUT IT- so just hug her.
24. Make her feel loved.
25. Kiss her in front of OTHER girls you know


26. DON'T lie to her
27. DON'T cheat on her!
28. Take her ANYWHERE she wants

29. Text message or call her in the morning and tell her have a good day at work {or school}, and how much you MISS her.
30. Be there for her when ever she needs you, & even when she doesn't need you, just be there so she'll know that she can ALWAYS count on you.


31. Hold her close when she's cold so she can hold YOU too.
32. When you are ALONE hold her close and kiss her.
33. Kiss her on the CHEEK: (it will give her the hint that you want to kiss her).
34. While in the movies, put your arm around her and then she will automatically put her head on your shoulder, then lean in and tilt her chin up and kiss her LIGHTLY.
35. Don't EVER tell her to leave even jokingly or act like you're mad. If shes upset, comfort her.


36. When people DISS her, stand up for her.
37. Look deep into her EYES and tell her you love her.
38. Lay down under the STARS and put her head on your chest so you can cuddle.
39. When walking next to each other grab her HAND.
40. When you hug her HOLD her in your arms as long as possible


41. Call or text her EVERY night to wish her SWEET DREAMS
42. COMFORT her when she cries and wipe away her tears.
43. Take her for LONG walks at night.
44. ALWAYS remind her how much you love her.
45. Sit on top of her and tell her how much u love her and then bend down to her face and kiss her while sitting on her.
46. Rub her back--feels good
47. Give her your coat if she's cold--thats always cute
48. Write letters on her back with your finger--feels good ;D
49. Let her sit on your lap
50. DON'T poke her hard...but if you want to mess around just do it lightly.
51. HOLD her HAND in PUBLIC.
52. Even if she looks BAD one day tell her she's BEAUTIFUL
53. Keep conversations about anything usually they just go along with it.
54. If their hair is in their face move it out of her face and then kiss her passionately and gently.
55. Surprisingly sneak up on her and hug her from behind--loves it.
56. Kiss her in the rain.
57. Pick her up like in The Notebook and kiss her.
58. Slow dance with no music
59. Don't ignore her or be nervous around her--everything is going to be alright.
60. Love her, kiss her, hold her, and you'll be good to go. ;D

"Love is composed of a single soul inhabiting two bodies."

"If I could reach up and hold a star for every time you made me smile, I would have the whole night sky in the palm of my hand."

BABY ! We are spending our second V-day tgthr ! :D

Behind the glamour.

Who says a wayward kid will stay wayward forever? ™
Better Known as SNOW
I'm an Author, Entrepreneur and Glutton all in ONE!
12th October 1990, I'm a libran and lovin it!
I'm the author of (Jolene's Story), my first published memoir, a true life story under Marshall Cavendish!

-Wee Hwee Haw

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